Fashion Myths

All About the Neck

Too short! Too big! Too thin! Too fat! Too wrinkly

How did the neck become such a sensitive topic? After all since when has anyone heard a man who was eyeing someone say ”Get a look at that neck on that woman!” As far as I know, all my single friends seem to notice everything else. Of course this myth should not exist purely because men rarely check out a neck. I am attempting to dispel this myth because the sensitivity women have about their necks seem to prevent them from really finding the accessory they deserve to wear.

Generally speaking, when we look at each other, we see faces, eyes, and the body as a whole. The neck is just one aspect of the whole part of us. As individuals, when looking at each other, we rarely zoom in on one aspect of the body while blocking out the rest. That is why when one tries too hard to cover up the neck, it usually just lands up being too obvious and constricting. What we should be doing is wearing necklaces or earrings that work with the whole of us.

As I wrote before, select the necklace that fits well and remember that the neck needs room to breathe. The exception of course is the choker – which can create a wonderful evening effect. But again this is about the occasion rather than the neck. For earrings, I think what matters is when one wears long earrings, they do not bump onto your shoulders. So the size is dependent on the distance between the ear and shoulder. However, even this point is dependent on one’s personality. When a woman lets her beautiful personality show, it carries whatever she is wearing with her. When we allow our personalities to shine through, the jewelry becomes a great compliment to that personality. When we walk around moody, the jewelry will do nothing for us. Therefore, it really is about the personality, the occasion, and the proportion. When women come in my store and say they need a necklace or earring, the first thing I ask is “Well, what is the occasion? Is this event going to be outdoors? Will it be a day or evening, fun or serious event?” Only then does the color and length come into play.

This subject has so many aspects that I would really love to hear your take on this myth!

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